Last night I met up with an old guy friend form high school for coffee that I found on facebook a few weeks ago. I hadn't seen him in about 12 years and what I could remember is that he was weird.
He always had been the black sheep in school and all kinds of rumors were going around about him. But I told myself lets give him the benefice of the doubt that he may have grown up with the years and gotten less weird.
We meet up at this little tea place in a really busy part of down town. When I see him my first impressions are: OMG he's drunk, he gained weight , his shirt is completely open (it's cold here) and he is still weird. We start talking and catching up when the waitress brings us the tea menu. So we start looking at menu and he talks and talks loud...a waiter come to see us to tell us that this place is a quiet place that he should lower his tone. Waiter ends up coming back again still telling us that this is a quiet place and bla bla bla, so my friend got up and we left.
We went to a second coffee place. A bit of a snob french place, but that seemed normal. People where looking at us because it was so obvious that he was drunk and weird. The waiter at that place kept on asking us every 5 minutes if we where done.
Since my friend was too nice, telling me multiple things like that I am naive or innocent or stupid, I was anxious to get home, so I called it a quit. He ended up not having a dime so I had to pay for everything.
We got outside and started to walk to my car. He tried to hold my hand and I told him I had a boyfriend that this wasn't appropriate and he got mad. The entire walk to my car he let me know that I shouldn't have invited him for coffee if I didn't have any intentions to have intercourse or what so ever with him. I told him very clearly the first day we reconnected on facebook that I was in a relationship.
We walked by a candy store that I love and he asks me if I want to go in. At this point I am angry embarrassed and I just want to go home. So I say know and he calls me stupid and other names. I just walk away from him, got in my car and came home.
When I got home damn I was happy this was all over. I had a message from him on facebook saying to go eat shit stupid girl.
I can tell you this coffee left a bad taste in my mouth.
12 comments:
oh my word! what a horrible experience, some thigns are best left in the past aren't they?! have a shower and wash off the horrible experience then get some good wine and settle down with your boyfriend and think yourself lucky! Sorry you had to experience that!! xx
Ouf!!! Dangereux le monsieur! Contente que tu sois de retour à la maison sans autre conséquence qu'un mauvais souvenir!
xxx
Woah. What a jerk! That sounds like an absolute nightmare!
oh my gosh thats horrible! ick! :(
darn, that's an eww experience, I mean.. uh oh. He has no manner at all, damn.
ps. Why is my captcha so long? lol. it said asiverme hmmm... *I know, not important, lol
He sounds like an utter DOUCHE! At least you know not to make the mistake of meeting up with him again though.
If you haven't already deleted him as a friend, do so now!
OH MY GOD, you are nice and he's a douche. What is wrong with morons like this? I hope by now he's off your friend list.
holy cow!!! that is terrible!! i can't even imagine that happening! i'm glad you could get out of that situation! delete that guy!
So glad your safe. I agree. Just delete him and don't even try to be his friend. NOT WORTH IT!!
Oh my god! I am so sorry that sounds horrible! I had a similar experience when I did online dating and after the horribly atrocious date got a text that said "F--- you B----." Completely uncalled for. You were trying to be sweet to catch up with him and didn't deserve that.
Oy. I am sorry you had such a bad experience.
oh my word....you poor thing. that is TERRIBE. you were just trying to be a nice girl....and look where that got you :(
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