Last night I met up with an old guy friend form high school for coffee that I found on facebook a few weeks ago. I hadn't seen him in about 12 years and what I could remember is that he was weird.
He always had been the black sheep in school and all kinds of rumors were going around about him. But I told myself lets give him the benefice of the doubt that he may have grown up with the years and gotten less weird.
We meet up at this little tea place in a really busy part of down town. When I see him my first impressions are: OMG he's drunk, he gained weight , his shirt is completely open (it's cold here) and he is still weird. We start talking and catching up when the waitress brings us the tea menu. So we start looking at menu and he talks and talks loud...a waiter come to see us to tell us that this place is a quiet place that he should lower his tone. Waiter ends up coming back again still telling us that this is a quiet place and bla bla bla, so my friend got up and we left.
We went to a second coffee place. A bit of a snob french place, but that seemed normal. People where looking at us because it was so obvious that he was drunk and weird. The waiter at that place kept on asking us every 5 minutes if we where done.
Since my friend was too nice, telling me multiple things like that I am naive or innocent or stupid, I was anxious to get home, so I called it a quit. He ended up not having a dime so I had to pay for everything.
We got outside and started to walk to my car. He tried to hold my hand and I told him I had a boyfriend that this wasn't appropriate and he got mad. The entire walk to my car he let me know that I shouldn't have invited him for coffee if I didn't have any intentions to have intercourse or what so ever with him. I told him very clearly the first day we reconnected on facebook that I was in a relationship.
We walked by a candy store that I love and he asks me if I want to go in. At this point I am angry embarrassed and I just want to go home. So I say know and he calls me stupid and other names. I just walk away from him, got in my car and came home.
When I got home damn I was happy this was all over. I had a message from him on facebook saying to go eat shit stupid girl.
I can tell you this coffee left a bad taste in my mouth.